Quick Toasting Tips

Whether you're on the giving or receiving end of a toast or you're just a guest at the party, there are a few basic rules of etiquette that a will help you avoid most social mishaps.

• The first toast should be made by the host.
• The person receiving the toast should remain seated and should not drink to the toast.
• When the guest of honor is being toasted, they stand when the toast is finished and thank the one who gave the toast.
• When giving a toast you should stand and speak slow enough and loud enough for all guests to hear.
• Prepare ahead of time; you should know what you are going to say and avoid being long-winded.
• Mention those being toasted by name, your relationship to them, and a thought about this wonderful event.
• Add witty anecdotes wherever possible, if they are in good taste.
• Avoid consuming alcohol before giving a toast.
• Don't forget to cap off the toast with a hearty ending like "Cheers!"
• Other guests should always take part in a toast using whatever glass is handy, even if it is just an empty water glass.